The red flag journal

Stop making excuses for him.

Every time he messes up, it goes in the cup. When it overflows, you’re out of excuses.

  • Only on your phone
  • No account needed
  • He only gets a pseudonym
Cup screen: a battered Redzia says “No. Just no. That’s control, not care.” The cup is 75% full
75%full
Goes through my phoneDealbreaker +6
How it works

You tap. Redzia takes the hit.The cup remembers.

1

Tap a flag. Done.

Ghosting, hot and cold, “nothing serious” four months in. Drop a ready-made flag into the cup with one tap, or add your own in seconds.

Cup screen: a grid of flags grouped into minor, serious and dealbreakers
+3 · Ghostinginto the cup
2

Redzia takes the hits with you

Every red flag means a new band-aid, bruise or stitch. Green flags heal her. You see how much you’ve put up with before you’re ready to admit it to yourself.

  1. Good as new
  2. Band-aid
  3. Scratches
  4. Black eye
  5. Coming apart
  6. Button eye

“A black eye, babe. That’s not normal.”

3

When it overflows, you’ll know

Cross your limit and the cup spills over. Redzia tells it straight: he’s not the one for you. Close the chapter with your head held high, or give him one last chance. No judgment.

Overflow screen: a furious Redzia and the message “The cup overflowed. Kuba z Tindera is not for you.”
Features

Facts instead of“maybe I’m overreacting”

Flag creator: Redzia suggests the flag “Ghosting” with the weight Serious
+3 · GhostingSerious

Can’t name it? Redzia can

Describe what happened in your own words. Redzia suggests a flag, tells you why in a sentence and picks a weight you can change with one tap.

History: a timeline of dated flags and a closed chapter with a bravery badge
1 closed chapter

A timeline with dates

Every flag lands on a timeline, a separate one for each guy. Next time you catch yourself making excuses for him, it’s all there in black and white.

  • Your patience limit

    Saint, normal or zero tolerance. You decide how much you’ll take before the cup overflows.

  • Green flags count too

    Remembered a date that matters? A green flag drains some bitterness and heals Redzia. Fair both ways.

  • Always a pseudonym

    “Jake from Tinder”, “Ben from the gym”. No real names, photos or profiles.

  • Bravery badge

    A closed chapter stays in your history as proof that you made it through.

Onboarding screen: “Everything stays on your phone.”
Privacy

Nobody sees this. Not even us.

  • It all stays on your phone. Flags, the cup and your chats with Redzia never go to any cloud.
  • No account. No email, no phone number. You restore your subscription with your Apple ID.
  • He only gets a pseudonym. The AI creator only sees the description of what happened, and only if you say yes.
Reviews

They stopped making excuses. They started counting.

  • For three months I told myself he was just busy. The cup overflowed in two weeks.

    Emma, 24

  • I logged “k.” as a minor one. A month later Redzia had a black eye and I finally opened mine.

    Kate, 27

  • I showed my best friend the file. She read it and just said: well, there’s your answer.

    Megan, 22

How much more will you forgive?

The cup remembers. So do I.

Start logging today. Your first flag takes seconds.

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