The red flag journal

Stop making excuses for him.

Every time he messes up, it goes in the cup. When it overflows, you’re out of excuses.

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  • Only on your phone
  • No account needed
  • He only gets a pseudonym
Cup screen: a battered Redzia says “No. Just no. That’s control, not care.” The cup is 75% full
75%full
Goes through my phoneDealbreaker +6
How it works

You tap. Redzia takes the hit.The cup remembers.

Tap a flag. Done.

Ghosting, hot and cold, “nothing serious” four months in. Drop a ready-made flag into the cup with one tap, or add your own in seconds.

Cup screen: a grid of flags grouped into minor, serious and dealbreakers
+3 · Ghostinginto the cup

Redzia takes the hits with you

Every red flag means a new band-aid, bruise or stitch. Green flags heal her. You see how much you’ve put up with before you’re ready to admit it to yourself.

  1. Good as new
  2. Band-aid
  3. Scratches
  4. Black eye
  5. Coming apart
  6. Button eye

“A black eye, babe. That’s not normal.”

When it overflows, you’ll know

Cross your limit and the cup overflows. Redzia tells it straight: he’s not the one for you. Close the chapter with your head held high, or give him one last chance. No judgment.

Overflow screen: a furious Redzia and the message “The cup overflowed. Kuba z Tindera is not for you.”
Features

Facts instead of“maybe I’m overreacting”

Chat with Redzia: Redzia suggests the flag “Ghosting” with the weight Serious
+3 · GhostingSerious

Can’t name it? Redzia can

Describe what happened in your own words. Redzia suggests a flag, tells you why in a sentence and picks the right weight.

History: a timeline of dated flags and a closed chapter with a bravery badge
1 closed chapter

A timeline with dates

Every flag lands on a timeline, a separate one for each guy. Next time you catch yourself making excuses for him, it’s all there in black and white.

  • Your patience limit

    Saint, normal or zero tolerance. You decide how much you’ll take.

  • Green flags count too

    Remembered a date that matters? A green flag drains some bitterness and heals Redzia. Fair both ways.

  • Always a pseudonym

    “Jake from Tinder”, “Ben from the gym”. No real names, photos or profiles.

  • Bravery badge

    A closed chapter stays in your history as proof that you made it through.

Onboarding screen: “Everything stays on your phone.”
Privacy

Nobody sees this. Not even us.

  • It all stays on your phone. We don’t keep your flags, your cup or your chats with Redzia.
  • No account. No email, no phone number.
  • He only gets a pseudonym. Only the description of what happened goes to the AI.

How much more will you forgive?

The cup remembers. So do I.

Start logging today. Your first flag takes seconds.

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